I have recently noticed an increase in brides searching for alternatives, when their ceremony site will not allow them to drop or throw petals, among other things. In the past year we are begun to see a trend in ceremony venues discouraging couples from dropping or throwing rose petals during the processional and recessional, as well as outlawing bird seed, bubbles, silly string, and the like. These items can be damaging to the carpet, flooring and stain sidewalks or concrete; not to mention they pose clean-up problems for the venue.
So what does this leave a bride to do? There are several alternatives to consider. In this article I will outline what those alternatives are and the pro’s/con’s of each.
Instead of dropping petals down the aisle
1. Colored Runner /Artistic Runner
- Pro – The runner no longer has to be white. They come in a variety of widths and colors, or opt to have a designer runner made. (Perhaps with your monogram, logo or wedding date.) This color will take the place of the colored petals you would have chosen. It will also create a dramatic backdrop for your photographs. Ideally, select a color that is slightly different than the bridesmaid dresses or choose a complimentary accent color.
- Con’s -Some ceremony venues consider them to pose a tripping hazard and therefore not allowed. Also, colored runners are typically more expensive than traditional white runners. Consider using plastic colored tablecloths purchased on rolls from your local party store.
2. Pew Flowers
- Pro’s - This is any easy and effective way to add color to the aisle. Pew flowers designs can be almost anything. Choose the more dominate color of your wedding scheme and add trailing greenery or ribbon. If you plan ahead, select a design that can serve a double purpose; after the ceremony use at the reception. (Click here to see a picture)
- Con’s - Depending upon your wedding budget, these may not be cost effective. Consider doing them your self using quality silk flowers. Don’t forget, that once the ceremony is over someone will need to remove them from the ceremony site.
3. Floor Garland
- Pro’s – Using garland is very easy, just set along the aisle floor. Garland comes in a variety of lengths, widths, and styles. You will want to ensure the garland is full looking, or you may want to embellish them with flowers, pearls or fabric.
- Con’s - Quality garland will be more expensive, and make sure you double the order for both sides of the aisle.
4. Floor Pots
- Pro’s - Using taller floor arrangements and/or small trees will add significant color and definition to your aisle. You will want to ensure that arrangements are 24-36 inches tall. (Just make sure you don’t block your guest’s view.)
- Con’s - Some aisle may not be wide enough for this technique. Remember, the aisle has to accommodate two people. Another problem may be seating entries and exits are not wide enough and you will be blocking them. (Make sure to check with the venue, some local municipalities have strong fire safety laws concerning this issue.)
Instead of throwing petals while leaving the ceremony
5. Dove Release
- Pro’s – This type of release can add another symbolic meaning to your event. Such as a new beginning, peace, love, serenity and the Holy Spirit, while also providing a breathtaking view as they circle the sky.
- Con’s – If you are not used to have animals circling your head, this situation may be uncomfortable; and no matter how well they are trained there can always be room for an error, they are animals.
6. Butterfly Release
- Pro’s – This type of release will create a colorful ensemble, flying through the skies. Butterflies will also act as natural accent jewelry to your bouquets, as they are drawn to certain colors and floral scents. This release is generally inexpensive to conduct with most prices under $100 per dozen.
- Con’s – Some guests may not feel comfortable with a “bug”, regardless that they are harmless, flying or landing on them.
7. Sparklers
- Pro’s – Using sparklers as you make your exit will create a festive atmosphere. This technique works best for evening ceremonies or for events surrounding the 4th of July holiday. Sparklers come in a variety of lengths to ensure adequate burn time. This option is very affordable at just $0.25-$0.95 a piece. (Check out these from Moments of Elegance)
- Con’s – As your parents always told you, be careful! Sparklers are more dangerous than other options and can burn clothing or a guest. Make sure to purchase the proper length, you don’t want to make your exit and the sparklers have already fizzled out. To adequately estimate burn time, include how long you think it will take to light them, plus how long to exit the ceremony.
8. Bells
- Pros – Miniature wedding bells are inexpensive to purchase and make a visual and audible addition to your grand exit. If you want to enhance the look, group them together and create a wand. (Click Here to see a picture)
- Con’s – I see no drawbacks to this option.
9. Balloon Release
- Pro’s – This release will provide enormous amounts of color and will require involvement from guests. Balloons are fairly inexpensive and come in almost any color imaginable.
- Con’s – There are a few environmental concerns, once balloons have landed. Make sure you choose biodegradable latex and use cotton strings or crape paper.
10. Streamer Wands
- Pro’s – This option has a double purpose; you will be able to use for your exit and give guests something to play with. Streamer wands are inexpensive to make and can be designed in an array of colors.
- Con’s – These wands are created using a dowel rod and if not careful could poke a guest or be used, by children, as a fighting stick.
BIO: Kristi Richardson has created more than 12,000 floral arrangements in her years as a professional bridal/event consultant and silk floral designer. Visit www.BloomedToLast.com to learn more tips, see floral examples, or to read more wedding planning articles.
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